WHEN DOES CONTENT CROSS THE LINE?
The Jayden Adams Funeral, Ubuntu and the Social Media Generation
The Creative Passport extends its deepest condolences to the family, friends, teammates, supporters and everyone affected by the passing of Jayden Adams. We also take this moment to acknowledge the growing number of athletes, artists and cultural practitioners whose lives have been cut short in recent years. Each loss reminds us not only of the fragility of life, but also of the profound impact these individuals have on our communities and our national identity. May their memories continue to inspire generations to come.
We recognise that reflecting on moments surrounding a person's passing is deeply sensitive, and we approach this conversation with humility, empathy and respect for the bereaved. Our intention is not to judge individuals or assign blame, but to ask questions that may help us, as South Africans and as Africans, to reflect on our values in an era shaped by social media and instant content. Meaningful questions are an essential part of social cohesion, nation-building and the growth of a democratic society. They encourage dialogue, challenge assumptions and deepen our collective understanding.
The passing of footballer Jayden Adams was a moment of immense grief for his family, friends, teammates and millions of South Africans. It was also a reminder that, regardless of fame, death remains one of the most sacred moments in many African societies.
Yet in the age of social media, where every moment can become content, an uncomfortable question emerges:
Have we become so consumed by creating content that we are slowly losing our sense of cultural sensitivity and Ubuntu?
The Department of Sport, Arts and Culture shared several video clips from the funeral proceedings. Among them were moments showing Minister Gayton McKenzie approaching the open casket, removing his sunglasses to view the deceased before putting them back on, and footage of SAFA President Danny Jordaan and former Bafana Bafana coach Hugo Broos appearing to pay their final respects, with Hugo Broos seemingly touching the coffin during his farewell.
Whether these actions were entirely appropriate is one debate. But another, perhaps more important, question deserves equal attention:
Should these intimate moments have been recorded, edited and shared on official government social media platforms in the first place?
In many African cultures, viewing the body of a deceased loved one is an intensely personal and emotional experience. It is often reserved for close family, relatives and invited mourners. These moments are not performances; they are moments of farewell, reflection and closure.
So, what has changed?
Has social media changed our understanding of what should remain private?
Have cameras become so normal that we no longer pause to ask whether every emotional moment deserves an audience?
Or have we reached a point where grief itself has become content?
One cannot help but ask difficult questions.
Who decides which funeral moments become public content?
Was consent obtained from the family for these close-up moments to be distributed online?
Would we feel differently if it were our own parent, sibling, spouse or child lying in that casket?
Would we still believe those moments belong on Facebook, X, Instagram or TikTok?
These are not accusations. They are questions that deserve thoughtful reflection.
Perhaps the bigger conversation is not even about the individuals captured in the videos.
Perhaps it is about those behind the cameras.
Why did the Department's social media administrators believe these particular clips were suitable for publication?
What editorial considerations were applied before uploading them?
What public interest was served by sharing someone's final viewing of the deceased?
Could the same story have been told by celebrating Jayden Adams' life, achievements and legacy rather than broadcasting deeply personal moments of farewell?
Government communication plays an important role in documenting national events. But documentation should not automatically mean that every emotional moment becomes public consumption.
As content creators, government communicators, journalists and influencers, we all carry ethical responsibilities.
Just because technology allows us to capture everything does not mean everything should be captured.
Just because a moment attracts views does not mean it deserves publication.
This debate also invites us to reflect on Ubuntu.
Ubuntu teaches us about dignity, compassion, humanity and respect.
If Ubuntu means "I am because we are," then how should Ubuntu guide us when someone has passed away?
Does Ubuntu encourage us to preserve the dignity of mourning families?
Or have we unconsciously redefined Ubuntu to fit an era driven by likes, shares, comments and engagement statistics?
It is also important to recognise that South Africa is culturally diverse. Funeral customs differ among communities, religious traditions and families. What may be acceptable in one culture or family may not be acceptable in another.
But does cultural diversity remove the responsibility to exercise caution?
Or should it encourage even greater sensitivity before sharing intimate funeral moments with the world?
Perhaps the issue before us is bigger than one funeral.
It is about the society we are becoming.
A society where every emotional moment is filmed.
Every tear becomes content.
Every farewell becomes a clip.
Every funeral becomes a social media event.
As Africans, are we comfortable with that future?
Or is it time to draw ethical boundaries between public information and private grief?
These are not easy questions.
But they are necessary ones.
Because sometimes the most respectful thing we can do is not to capture the moment but simply to be present in it.
As we engage in this discussion, let us remember that we are entitled to agree, disagree or hold different cultural perspectives, provided we do so with dignity and mutual respect. South Africa's rich diversity means that customs surrounding mourning and funerals vary across cultures, traditions and faiths. It is through respectful conversation, listening and education that we can better understand one another and perhaps move closer to a shared appreciation of what dignity, Ubuntu and cultural sensitivity should look like in the digital age.
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